Is it wrong to tell all our problems to another person ?
At face value, this seems to be a simple enough question and most of you would say "No of course not, that's what friends are there for"
But think a bit deeper. Why do we want to pour out a problems to others, to a friend or a person we love or whoever. Maybe because it makes us feel better to "share" our problems or maybe to see if the other person can suggest a solution or it may even be to get some old fashion sympathy :)
All of these are very very selfish reasons. Think for a minute.
It results in the other person becoming worried in one way or another. It suddenly dawned on me that this too is a sin. We are inflicting pain on another person. Its as simple as that. We as human beings have absolutely no right to willfully cause harm of any kind to others. Therefore learn to keep your problems to yourself as you certainly have no right to relate them to others.
Tough ? I know :)